Sunday, November 25, 2018

Choosing a Best Friend!


Marry got back from school desperate and frustrated. She sat on the table quietly and stared out of the window.
Her mother looked at her and said, “Honey, is everything alright?”
Marry looked at her and sighed, “Uh, school is frustrating. The teacher asked us to write an essay about out best friend and I can’t decide which one I like the most. Mia, Sandra, and Ranin are my best friends! I mean I’m close to the three of them and I can’t decide which one is my favorite.” She said.
“Oh, come on! I’m pretty sure that you have a best friend that you like the most.” Her mother said. “Unfortunately no, I’ll never figure this out.” Marry sighed deeply. She put her hands on her head and muttered, “Miss Mariam will be so disappointed tomorrow if I don’t choose who I’m going to talk about.” Her mom hugged her tight and said, “Don’t worry, we will figure this out.” “Oh, oh! I have an idea. Let us compare your three friends and see which one of them is your best friend.”
Marry rolled her eyes and said, “Okay, we can try that.” “Oh come on Marry. Don’t be all sad and gloomy. We will find your best friend! Don’t worry.” Her mother replied. Then, she grabbed a chair and sat next to Marry. “Okay, let us start our work now. I want you to think of Mia, Sandra, and Ranin and tell me with whom you fight the most.” Her mother wondered. Marry thought for a couple of seconds and said, “We all fight over silly stuff but we never let the fight last for more than one night. But Sandra is the most stubborn. She assumes that she is always right and never apologizes. Ranin is the sweetest. She does get angry sometimes but she always apologizes after she calms down.” “What about Mia?” her mother asked. “She is fine. Apparently, she is better than Mia but isn’t as sweet as Ranin.” Marry replied. “Uhuh, so Mia gets a point, and Ranin gets two points. Now think about the days that you go out with them. With whom do you like to spend time the most?” Marry stared at the ceiling for seconds and then said, “Ranin is the funniest. She tells the most hilarious jokes. My stomach gets sore from how much I laugh when she is around. But Mia is the most intelligent one in the group. She has told me several riddles that I still didn’t get. However, I always ask her to tell me more riddles. Sometimes, they are funnier than Ranin’s jokes. When Sandra is around, she tells us the most ridiculous stories. But she doesn’t hang out with us that much because she babysits her brother when her mom is gone. She is the oldest sister.” “Okay, I think we can exclude Sandra now and focus on Mia and Ranin. Which of these two girls do you trust?” Her mother questioned. “Ranin doesn’t have a lot of good friends other than us but she has her older sister who knows everything about her. Umm, I think Mia is more trustful than Ranin. So I will choose Mia for that.” Marry said. “Ahuh, I see. Okay, what about their interests? Are they similar to your interests?” her mother questioned. “Mia loves shopping just like me. But she spends her money on essential things only so I admit that she is wiser than me when it comes to spending money. We both like baggy shirts and ripped pants. Ranin doesn’t like this style. She usually wears her gym outfit all day. She is more into sports and football. She joined the football team at school and the coach said that she is the most talented girl in the team. I’m really proud of her but honestly I’m not into sports at all. I hate it when she calls me to watch football games. I definitely prefer to go shopping with Mia.” Marry said. “Wait a minute. I think we found your best friend!!!!!!” Her mother said excitedly. “It is MIA! I mean it is obvious that you like the three of them but you get along with Mia most of the times.” Marry jumped out of the chair and shouted enthusiastically, “You are right! I do get along with Mia. I’m so happy mommy.” She kissed her mom and said, “I have the most amazing mom in the world. Thank you.” 



Sunday, October 21, 2018

Teaching: Between Theory and Practice!

  My first ever teaching practice on a bunch of eight year old kids was tragic. "Tragic is just so  negative. If I want to succeed in my career, I have to be more positive." That's exactly what I'm thinking of now and I bet whoever is reading this right now have the same thoughts but let me tell you my story.
I was so excited to go to an actual class in an actual school, and start my teaching journey. I prepared the lesson enthusiastically and practiced all my words thousand times. I remember I couldn't sleep that night from how excited I was. Soon as I arrived to school the next day, I ran to the playground looking for my students, smiling and welcoming them all. Then, I felt someone pocking me in the back. I turned and saw a mid height, blond lady with huge glasses smiling at me. "You are the new teacher I guess." she asked. I smiled and nodded. "Welcome to our school. How do you find it so far?" she asked. I told her it is my first day here but I'm looking forward to get to know details about it. "It is obvious that you are so excited but watch out. I mean these little angels can be devils in class. If you want to gain their respect and have them disciplined for the rest of the year, you have to be very strict. Now, go sit in the teacher's room and remove the smile." she added. I remember I laughed and nodded but deep I wasn't convinced. I mean I learned for three years how to control a class! I knew I shouldn't be that strict. It is just not what I wanted in my class. I did go to the teacher's room with that teacher on that day but I didn't stay there for longer than three minutes. I went back to class and stood in front of the class's door to greet every student when he/she walks into the class.  As soon as they entered the class, t

Wednesday, October 17, 2018

Life is Full of Different Adventures!

The new year has begun. I'm sitting in the same class of last semester and I'm seeing the same teachers. I sat there wondering if anything would look different this year. What are the new challenges? Are the courses harder or simpler? Will I meet new friends? I was curious to know what this school year has for me. 
So far, I can say in every corner of your life, there are hidden boxes that you have to look for to see what adventure is ahead of you. The first week of the university was usual. I felt that I know all the information. Everything looked familiar. I went home thinking of quitting school. But as we are advancing in the semester, I'm getting convinced that life is full of adventures! Everywhere you go, you learn new and different things! 

The Outcomes of Imperfection

Last year, we were given the opportunity to observe teachers in real classrooms. I loved this experience that I want to tell you more about ...